You should get a job (anywhere) and pay your part. You can go to the Department of Human Resources and tell them you want to start sending child support on your own (wow!). Have a little pride in yourself.
It makes me sick to see losers who won’t work and they are laying around all day not contributing to anything good. I realize this can apply to women, too, but I’m talking specifically about a few sperm donors I know. Anyone can make babies but it takes a responsible grownup individual to be a dad.
I think deadbeat dads should go to jail every time they miss a payment — the full payment, not just a partial payment. What is sad is the people who take the money will tell these losers that if you just pay something that you won’t get in trouble. How sad is that?
I know so many mothers struggling to make ends meet, they work and love their children or child. There should be a Deadbeat Loser Dad Jail. Your child is going to grow up and they will figure you out without anyone saying a word. You have one chance to be a good parent.